February 2010 \ Gigging & Recording \ Hey, You Can't Do That \ Why So Serious? Rediscovering the Fun of Music

Why So Serious? Rediscovering the Fun of Music

Steve Ouimette

If it's not fun, then what's the point?


Premier Guitar February 2010

This month, I’m going to take a break from the Gear Addiction Recovery topic and talk about something serious. Actually, the idea of not being too serious is the topic. Maybe we need to have a little fun with music—like we did before we knew too much. Let me share a few examples to get this rolling.

My good friend, Brody Dolyniuk, is the singer for a show called The Music of Queen. It’s by the same company that put together the very successful The Music of Led Zeppelin show that has been combining classic rock with orchestras since 1995. The band consists of a guitarist, bassist, drummer, and vocalist playing with the local symphony from whichever city they happen to be playing that night. The result is a show that appeals to both classical and rock fans.

So anyway, The Music of Queen was in town the other night and I got a chance to hang with Brody the day before the show and catch up. He’s a funny guy and it comes across in just about everything he does…and it’s infectious. He’s incredibly talented, but that never stops him from telling a joke or slipping into a character right in the middle of a conversation.

When the show came, I really had no idea what to expect. The orchestra and band started playing a familiar Queen song, and just before the vocal part was supposed to begin, out walks Brody. Total ham. Sure, he’s nailing the parts, but more than that, he’s entertaining. Immediately, you could feel the audience loosen up and begin taking part in the show. Everyone was having fun. Throughout the show, he continued to sing what everyone came to hear—but with that extra measure of fun that turned the music from a show into an event. The humor made the show and turned the Dodge Theater (which was pretty much full) into everyone’s living room. Fun.

Then there’s Winter NAMM 2010. I’ve been going to this show for 20 years, and it amazes me how serious some people take themselves. I’m not talking about the manufacturers. I’m talking about the guys that come to the show dressed like they’re getting ready to hit the stage at the Roxy, circa 1988: Hair teased to the ceiling with Aqua Net. Spandex and/or leather. Requisite shades (this is LA, I guess). And a seriousness that cannot be calculated by any modern computer. I mean, really—is this what it’s all about? Twenty years ago, it was the norm (though still ridiculous), but this is 2010. And yet the same folks keep coming back with that same attitude. Is there really any fun in that? Then you turn around and see ridiculously good players like Dweezil Zappa, Steve Morse, Steve Vai, and Joe Satriani, and they’ve all got these big smiles on their faces while they talk to their fans and look around the show at all the great new toys that are being made just for us guitarists. Again, fun.

What I’m trying to drive home here is that, while we might not be Brody, Satriani, or even one of the guys with the Aqua Net, we might be somebody that takes things too seriously. And where’s the fun in that?

Let’s try a test to see:
1. Do you pull out your guitar and get that silly grin on your face because you just enjoy playing so much, or does it concern you that you don’t have the coolest guitar on the block?
2. Do you worry that at the next Baked Potato jam you might not pick the coolest scale mode to solo in?
3. Does it bother you that your tone doesn’t sound like Eric Johnson’s?
4. Do you wonder what the guys on your favorite gear forum would think of you if you didn’t worry about what type of cable you were using?
5. Do you measure your pickup height with a micrometer?
6. Does it matter to you that your pick is worn a bit and doesn’t have the same response as a fresh one?
7. Does it bother you that playing the opening riff to “Cat Scratch Fever” is really a lot of fun?
8. Don’t you want to play “Stairway to Heaven” or “Smoke on the Water” when you hit GC?
9. Do you feel inferior because you own a 1x12 combo and not a full stack?
10. Do you want to wear spandex pants and a hot pink leopard print vest but are afraid to admit it?


Loosen up! We got into this because we wanted to have fun. Are you having fun? I have my own brand of fun, and yours is probably different than mine. If you really enjoy measuring your pickup height with high-tech devices to get that perfect tone, then by all means do so—but be honest with yourself. Life is short and the difference between having a good time and pretending to have a good time is pretty serious stuff. In the end, you’ll grow faster and have a much better time getting there if you’ve got a smile on your face from giving yourself a break.

That’s all folks. Oh, yeah, before I go, maybe you could share a little bit about the ways you take yourself too seriously and what you could change to make it more fun. Mine is #8, and I think it’s time to head over to Guitar Center right now. Ritchie Blackmore, stand back!

     

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Eric
on 03/15/2011
1, 2 & 8 definitely describe me I've gotten very analytical from playing so much Metal music all the time. One thing I absolutely hate when it comes to playing guitar is over analyzing what I'm playing when I'm trying to have fun jamming out! I'll admit I've developed an arrogance when it comes to playing. If it's too simple it's not cool. It must be fast and technical and brutal!!! It's fun to play but just like anything it gets boring after a while. Switching to simpler music is a big challenge for me but it's worth all the effort when the music mojo starts a flowin and the jams finally come out!!! it's truly bliss I enjoyed your article by the way. Good read! It was exactly what I needed to let off steam from taking music too seriously today
Robert
on 09/07/2010
I'm going to take this breath of fresh air and run with it!!!
Anonymouse
on 03/29/2010
You`re right, anon-also, I do owe you and the Union a huge apology....actually, you`ll probably never know how deeply sorry I really am. I`ve been trying for many years to be accepted by "the community", musicians whose opinions I hold in the highest regard. I just wish that they could have an open mind for just one second and try to understand the state of mind I was in when I made that comment, and the bitterness that resulted from years of constant rejection and frustration, trying to understand what I was doing wrong. And you`re right, there are some very nice people in the Union and I NEVER meant to include the entire Union in my thoughtless words...(you have no idea how much I wish I could take that back...)

I don`t expect to receive forgiveness from this, I don`t deserve it. I just needed to try and explain where that anger was coming from,and try to make things right in whatever way that I can....

,,,
Thank you Steve & PG for letting me say my peace : ( ,,,
BopDlx
on 03/27/2010
Yeah, I totally agree with Tim. But I think that depends on the type of music you want to play,too. For instance, jazz pretty much requires that you know your scales & modes, harmony, etc whereas if you`re into blues, rock, or alt/folk/pop, then you can get started with just a few basic scales & chords and just have fun writing and making music. Then later on, maybe you want to learn why certain notes go with certain chords,etc.. I think you have to be INSPIRED to really study and practice, and even then it can get tiring after awhile...in which case you should drop it for the day and just start strummin' and noodlin' : )
Jack S. /AZ
on 03/24/2010
Guys,guys,remember..FUN? OK, my obsession is closer to #5,except instead of pickup height its action.check it out.I would be concerned if by lowering my action by 1/64" it would be considered Low and not High, or even medium! (LOL!)Can you believe it? Thanks for the reality check Steve.Now Ive been setting it 'somewhere' in the middle.My tone is still good,and besides,Stevie Ray had hands the size of King Kong and I don`t :D And yes, I`m having fun.
anon-also
on 03/23/2010
Yeah, playing "Cat Scratch Fever" IS alot of fun, I admit it ..but I had to respond to "Anonymouse" `s post: ..Wow..OK, first of all, I`m a union professional myself and found that remark extremely offensive, to say the least! Your remark implies that ALL union musicians are egotistical Gods looking to judge and ridicule aspiring hopefuls in the business - this is ridiculous! Let`s face it, we`re in a business that has it`s fair share of egos, union or otherwise, like the serious dudes Steve is referring to for example. And to a certain degree I understand where you`re coming from (you`ll have to trust me on this).This business CAN be harsh, and I`ve definitely been damaged a bit by it as well, Believe me!... but to lump the entire union into your comment is WRONG!! I have friends in the union that are the nicest people as well as being amazing players.The union musicians are the ones playing all the major gigs in the industry, and there`s a reason for that: they`re the best in the business! ,IMHO. While I feel for your situation, you really owe us an apology.

Anonymouse
on 03/21/2010
Interesting article...I suppose the concept of fun in music depends on how music fits into your life; If you`re a hobbyist or p/t gigging player that has another job, it`s a lot easier to have fun with music, whereas if you`re trying to play professionally and make a decent living, this business can be quite brutal to say the least. That "seriousness" you`re seeing at NAMM is probably the "Union Pro Elite" looking down condescendingly upon the poseurs & wannabes, judging you with their sub-atomic-particle-analyzers..(needless to say, I`ve been in this business most of my life & it`s beat the living sh*t outta me,to the point where I feel practicing is futile.) It`s ironic that I should find this article...I`m trying desperately to find the fun again, so maybe I can forge my way into another area of the business
Jon T. / O.C.
on 02/09/2010
Great article, sometimes it's good to put things in perspective. I guess that there is a balance between the technical stuff and the soul in playing guitar. I made it to Namm again this year and it really messes with your head. Ok, it's back to just playin' and havin' fun! :>)
gtrbldr
on 02/06/2010
Number 2 in the list is me sometimes. I love playing and I've had to work very hard to remember to have fun. I'm not a rock star nor will I ever be. I started playing to get out and meet people and have fun. Sometimes I forget that.
happydog
on 02/05/2010
I'm ashamed to say that I am one of those guys who not only measures the pickup height, but I worry about pick wear. I really needed this wakeup call!



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